Thursday, November 24, 2011
MONSTER IN LAW
I have loved this man forever and all that has come with this life, and let me tell you it has not been easy. With the children and baby mamas I have had enough drama to last a life time. But noone has cause me more drama and irritation than the woman that birthed him. My Mother-in-law. My mother in law is the type of woman that would make someone want to divorce this man. She is crazy as hell and destine on making my life miserable or his life but either way it will affect me some kind of way. I want to tell you about her. I know some of you will read this and find that most of it is my fault in one way or another. When my hubby and I first started getting serious I will admit I started having a relationship with her to make him see I was the one. You know the old saying if you can get in good with his momma you got em. So I would call her and talk, go by and spend hours with her and his kids just to show this man I loved him. And I mean she was cool, I really enjoyed her company,my hubby always had something negative to say about her and I would take up for her. I would tell him not to treat his momma like that and he would tell me "you don't know her just wait". I got pregnant with our son and she was accepting that I was having his baby, she didn't dismiss him as the father or anything like that. Then she started doing something that at the time I really was too young and dumb to know what she was really on. She started calling me and discussing with me the behavior of my stepdaughter(but we werent married then). I remember one particular day she called to talk to me and I was at work, when I came home my grandmother told me she called and asked her to have me called her back because she wanted to talk to me about my stepdaughter.My grandmother asked her why was she calling me she needed to call her son. I remember my grandmother telling me that she only wanted me to be with her son cause she wanted me to help him take care of the kids. And all was well until my baby boy was born. It started off with her promising to make him a blanket and needless to say he's 13 now and never did get that blanket. It would be little things like that at first. Then we got married and OMG the monster in law emerged. See the one real bad thing about her is that she super phony she will smile in your face and talk mad ish behind your back. I started noticing the difference she made in the children. She acted like she couldnt stand my stepdaughter but she was sooo in love with my step son. My son could never spend the night without a good reason and she was always putting my stepkids off on me. She started calling me all the time about them, never wanting to talk to my husband always wanting to talk to me. You would have thought I was her daughter. Then I really got to see her true colors when we moved in with her for a while. She expected for me to do everything, I'm suppose to cook, keep the house clean, watch the children and her son and even her daughter didn't have to do anything. Well needless to say when we moved out our relationship changed. I wouldn't talk to her as much and would try to get him to deal with her more. But that just made things worse because she would take it out on the kids. She would do little ish like, i would take my step daughter and get her done and when she would come home she was say stuff to her like when your hair falls out don't ask me to fix it. It was becoming blatantly obvious that she was jealous. And a big liar. She would lie to my daughter about me all the time or she would lie on my daughter to me. Just causing drama for no reason. So now my step daughter has graduated and has moved out of her house and she rarely talks to her, when she does call there its to talk to her brother. So now she uses that, she won't let her talk to her great grandma or her brother when she calls. So they have to sneak and call each other when she is not home. OH I CAN'T WAIT FOR MY STEP SON TO GRADUATE. Then we won't have to deal with her at all CRAZY WITCH!! Sorry ya'll I need to vent, had more but I would never stop typing if I typed it all.
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